I just got to know that, my sis is having problem to deal with her daugther. I can felt that my sis is very sad and disappointed, and she is tired. I just wish that i am there to help her up, but this's not the case. What i can do is to be her listener, help her to solve her problem via phone, encourage her to move on.
Since there are a nephew and a niece in our family, with real cases told by sis to me, i knew that being parent isn't that easy as ABC. It's a long journey. From a baby to a little kid, and from a little kid to a teenager, and from a teenager to an adult, parent is keep on worrying about their kids. The kids should know how the parent feel for them. I feel for my mother, as i know how my mother feels for me. As of this, i feel for my sister, as i treat her kids like mine too.
How to get the kids to the right way of living life, it's the experience gained can tell, plus the patience we have, plus the effective communication, plus the trust and believes we have. Say sounds so simple, yet working on it is so hard to gain.
Sis, you can do it, we can do it.... let's take this process for us to guide, and for the small one to learn.
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