Life

Life is very interesting. Life is started on your own, you make the story that has written by someone (god?) to you. And you make it better or worsen... it's the choice on your hand.

Human is another very interesting one. Human is the one who fill in the colors to life, make it be a colorful or grayish one. Again, it's the choice.

I am a human living a life. It's all started with me when I was working adult, experiencing up and down of living, I realized what's life about. I am somebody optimistic and always think positively, so family and friends will always think that I am a cheerful girl. Yes, I am a cheerful girl. I will handle thing better as compared to others in my family and amongst friends. Yet, I did mistakes too. I learnt from mistakes of life, those are the important lessons to me. So I will remind myself not to repeat the same mistake again. I always do that.

When I am somebody like this, there are people tend to take me for granted, and expect me to do more for them. And when I'm in my bad day, they will surprise that why I am like that? And they started comparing me with others, and concluded that I'm the worse. I am a human with emotion, I am not perfect, I make mistake too. That has again I learnt to live life my way, with conscience and responsibility I shall have and do. I can't bother what others said. I live my life simple.

A person nice and easy going does has bad days too. I can solve it when I know what to do. When I can't solve it, I will have lot of questions pop up here and there in my mind. For work, I am a tough girl and I know what I am doing. For personal, with family and friend or my loved one, I can be a weak girl sometimes, I knew I have to do more to improve myself on this. Sometimes, being a tough girl out there, somehow I will feel tiring being tough to the friends and family, I need someone to care, support and love. I did have them but don't expect me to be perfect all times, I can be falling down with the bad days I have.

Life to me, it is a simple one. Continue being someone better in dealing with my life.

9-Jan

 

9-Jan was spent nicely, wonderfully and gratefully,

Thank you to mama, sister and niece for the birthday calls

Thank you sister for the birthday ang pow

Thank you samyi for the birthday message

Thank you my wonderful man for the wonderful birthday meal, the beautiful birthday gift

Thank you all friends for the birthday wishes made to me

 

This year, I want to do something more meaningful

I want to spend more times with my family

I want to learn more to improve myself

I want to be a fitter me and live a healthy life

I want to help the others in need with my ability

Time to contribute more, and spread the love of living to people around me

2014 ~ Happy New Year

It is now 2014, 2nd Jan, happy new year all!

I have had a wonderful 2013, a year with ups and downs, as no matter how a person am I, I am still a human with emotion and feeling. Yet I take things optimistically, life wasn't too hard for me and I learnt a lot again, from the people surrounding me. Thanks people!

Family are all well, papa and mama are with good health, this is the biggest blessing I have for the year! I shall spend more times with them this year! Sister was facing some life obstacle mid last year, yet thanks god that she managed to come across it, things shall be turning better with her and the kids. Brother was doing well with his career, but still need to work harder for his personal life in certain way to be better. Fur-kids were separated last year as found they were fighting. So both will be taking turn staying at hometown or here with me. At least I won't miss them too much! I wish for another good year with good health for my family and let's do more for parent, and we shall seeing each other more!

Work for me last year is like a straight line, a very calm straight line. Think positively, I got my job sustained for another year. The company was able to expand the business by getting some new business. Yet, I need to do better for this year. Change of environment or stay with the same job, I shall do some assessment myself before making any move. I will do better, I believe I can.

Travelling last year were great, been to the places at South East Asia with my loves one. To know more about our neighbor countries for their people, foods, places, cultures, histories... I love seeing the world! For this year, yet to have any solid plan for travelling. Just one or two in mind, still thinking... and thinking.

Personal life is wonderful last year with a wonderful him with me. Spending time together for stuff we like to do, photography, short trips, cooking, exercises... 2013, a year for us to know each other better. That's still a long way to go, and hope things are going to be better and better this year.

Again, thanks all for being with me at 2013, and let's continue doing better in 2014!

5.5.2013

 

 

5.5.2013, the darkest day for majority of people of Malaysia

The people have came across the dirtiest ever election on this day!

We are sad, we are angry, we are frustrated... but what else can we do more?

I have been mourned for the day, and I was thinking to myself

I still have to work and earn a living here, my home is here, my family is here

So I have to live a better living here though I know I am living in a country with the bad government

I will wait for the day that my country will be in the good hand of the good government

and from now on, let's continue the cleaning as good as we still able to do it

Yet I feel glad that Selangor, Penang and Kelantan are still under the state governance of PR

Thanks for the PR leaders in mentoring us towards a cleaner country

Though the road towards a cleaner country is yet to reach

But your hard works are greatly appreciated, and our supports to you guys remain

Let's the spirit of UBAH continue evolve!

Think

 

Human thinks, so that's made us unique.

What I think, what he thinks, what she thinks?

We would never know instantly.

Only time can reveal a person plus you do think too!

When there are comments made to a thing or a person from somebody to you,

listen to it, but don't simply listen, see it and find it right with your eye and think too!

Conclude with what your hear, what you see and what you think.

Time reveal a person, yet also determined by the way you think too.

Take it rationally or emotionally, it's up to the individual.

For me, I always tell myself, to act rationally.

 

 



Keep On Learning...

Human is very special, because of emotion we have, else we will be just living like the robot.

Emotion, it's about action, expression, feeling we have...
Satisfaction, success, appreciation, motivation will lead us to be happy
Disappointment, failure, arguement, demotivation will lead us to sad
Frustration, failure, arguement, rude treatment will lead us to anger
... there are uncountable emotions that making our life up and down

That's why it came to a term called 'Emotion Intelligence (EQ)'

For most people, emotional intelligence (EQ) is more important than one’s intelligence (IQ) in attaining success in their lives and careers. As individuals our success and the success of the profession today depend on our ability to read other people’s signals and react appropriately to them. Therefore, each one of us must develop the mature emotional intelligence skills required to better understand, empathize and negotiate with other people — particularly as the economy has become more global. Otherwise, success will elude us in our lives and careers.

Written by By Steve Bressert, Ph.D. 

I always want to improve myself in this, no doubt i am a human too. I opt for the easy, simple living so I can always live in the happy space. Yet, it's not easy. I learnt that the living is a lot depending on our thinking. How others look at you? Do you mind what they said to you? What you do is acceptable by others? ... There are so much of ??? coming up!

I used to think of how others look at me for what I did last time. Now, I learn to do it a different way, I do thing I found it right, no harm and conflict with others. I don't mind what they said to me. If what they said is right, I will listen and correct it. If what they said is not making sense to me, I will just listen and forget about it later.

I am not saying that I am self-centric or ego, but living the easy and simple life and not a life of pleasing others surrounding me. Keep on learning... Simple and Happy...

 

 

Happy New Year

Happy new year, everyone!

2012, I lived with peace, happiness, and a contented heart.

I am glad that I have learnt a lot for the year too... for my personal, my work, family and friends. I learnt to appreciate more, to love, to let go, to live for a better me.

Personal, it's a change for me in handling my life differently this year, which is more quality for the times I spent and stuff I did. I came to know that I could not live life with expecting yet to contributing. I learnt to contribute more without expecting any returns. As good as I am happy and I am right in a way for the living.

Work, it's a very normal working year for me and my team. We target to boost up the business at 2013, for a better future of us. The team is aligned with our goal in mind, and we will strike for the best to the world outside to place our company to another level up. We can do it better definitely with the determination we have!

Family, it's another safe and peaceful year for my parent. I wish them both with good health and happy living in their golden age. Sister has had a tough year with her kids and family, yet she was tough enough and managed to take it. I am proud of my sister and I will always support her, wishing her and kids a joyful and blissful life always. Brother has good achievement at work, I am proud of him too. I wish my brother a fruitful year for his personal achievement and his career advancement too. Furkids are always my good companions, loving them to be so loyal to me, I will shower them with more loves I have. I love my family.

Friends, a good relationship I have with all my good friends. They play the important role to me, they support me, they share with me, they care for me. I always return the same to them. Number of good friends is increasing in my social life, I am glad to have this happened to me every year. Thank you to you all who have brought me joys and good times last past year! We shall have the same at coming year. I treasure everyone of you, you know who I meant here.

For 2013, I will continue my simple living with more laughters, more contributions to people surrounding me, more loves to my beloved one, more hard works for my career and yet do live life with the contented heart, remain as the same happy go lucky me!

Satisfaction October. Beautiful November

The working day at last day of October was a a satisfaction one!
I have got my solution worked as expected! So happy!
October ended with a satisfied full stop.

Beautiful November is here...
I plan for a more healthier lifestyle...
I work for a more satisfaction achievement...
I live for a better me... Happy November!

Positive overcome Negative

Work isn't that smooth lately, boss shared with me some challenges company is facing now. Once I have listened to him, first thing came into my mind is some sort of negative stuff... shall I start finding a job? After a few days of digestion and having more communication with boss, I have turned the challenges into the positive energy to push me up to another level.

I personally think the right valume of force to me is good. It will motivate me to achieve what I want to reach. I need to plan the future roadmap for myself, my team and the company. This is gonna be the time we will need to work harder and to get things happen in real.

There are still plenty for me to learn, much more for me to get improve, much much more for me to earn... So brain storming and strategy planning is started, and let's sail it to the goal!

First to move thing up, is to think and act positive!! I can do it!

I Change with My Growth

I found out there are changes on me with my growth...

....I prefer to have my bedsheets in plain color rather than those with different printings or colors.

....I prefer to have a leisure holiday rather than a busy visit places holiday.

....I prefer a home made coffee with low fat milk rather than the instance 3 in 1 coffee.

.....

There are changes on me from time to time.. I do believe you, him or her shall have the changes too. This is normal. As we grow, we think differently, we want our stuff to be done differently, so that's why changes came into place.

Listen to the comments from family and friends, and ask ourselve for the change we made. No right or wrong but to seek the balance in between. Happy living!

Everything Happens for a Reason...

I believe everything happens for a reason. It's a cycle of chain reaction. When there's something happened, there's no way of blaming or arguing. But to find way to resolve it and don't repeat the same thing happen again if that something is a wrong thing or a mistake, however if it's the right thing, it should be always repeat in our daily life.

No one is perfect in this world, I am not. Thus I always remind myself to do the right things, tho' I did mistakes too. I keep telling myself, I can't repeat doing the mistake. I took the mistake as lesson I learnt. So happen to my family and friend around me, I advice them the similar. It's hard for us to take it when mistake happened, so do me. Do take time to calm down, re-think, digest and find way to improve. This is the right thing we should do. It's important we always look forward but not backward.

We will grow wiser with what we have experienced everyday in our life. Take the mistake as lesson, take the right one as practice. Everything will turn better then.

A Simple Life

I watched a movie, A Simple Life by HK famous director, Ann Hui. The movie was casted by Dianie Ip and Andy Lau. It's all about an old lady, Hoe Jie's living at her elder age, who was not married and worked as a family servant for the Leong family for 60 years, witnessing the five generations of the family. And the good part is one of the son of the Leong family, Roger has took the responsibility to take care of Hoe Jie at her aging days, support her financially for staying in an old folk home and accompanying her till her last day of her life.

The movie touched my soul. It made me realised the life of the human in the aging days. It's not important that you are married or not, as what I can see. They are elderies with children yet still are being sent in to the old folks home, some are being abandoned by their children, some are of course still staying single. What does important is that someone really care for the one stay in old folks home? I can see from Hoe Jie, on how she was expecting the visits of Roger to her. How happy is her when she knew someone care for her.

The movie made me felt for the living of the aging elderies that I has not came across yet. I have parent, they are getting aging, they might think the same like the elderies in the movie. How they expect us to go home to visit them, how they expect we think of them when we are away out here for earning a living. In fact, I realise we need to be patience with the elderies, spending more times with them if we can and care for them more. I did ask myself, am I doing the right part as I suppose to do as a daughter? I do my right part but I don't think I do enough, I need to do better.

I did think about myself too... what will happen to me when I am aging? I just need cares from my family, I wish not to be a burden to them. I wish I am able to take care of myself at my aging days, and I have good contacts with my family, that my siblings will care for each other at our aging days. That's why I practice healthier lifestyle now, to have a healthy body or at least not too sick with illness at my aging days... A simple life I am seeking for, just like Hoe Jie.

What I have had at 2011

What I have had at 2011? Happiness, sorrow, tough... easy going... it a mixture of all!

Work wise~
I just changed my job at end of 2010, I was initially hoping the new job I got was a great one! But it was wrong, that was the first job I have worked for only 6 months, the shortest job I have! I left as I can't adapt to the working culture of the company. Yet, there came another opportunity, I was asked to join my ex-boss for working together again. Finally I choosed to work with my ex-bss again. I have no problem working with him, work is plentyful and we are clearing each one by one based on priority. Work is consider good for me this year!

Friend wise~
I met some new friends this year, there was one we communicate quite well. Yet due to job changed, we stopped contact each other frequently, hardly contact nowaday. I am still in good contact with my group of buddies from ASSB, and bobo club girl-friends from Obtech, and few more good friends of my school times. Friends are important to me, we share life thoughts, good foods, nice talks and laughters together! Friendship is in good maintenance this year!

Family wise~
Few things happened... Father can't walk well, ill due to oldman's sickness. Yet he is still a sturburn man to us, not always listen to us. Mother needs to take care of father now, hardly comes staying with me at my home now. Mother still likes to worry much, I did my best to talk to her more and make her happy. Brother got his new girl friend this year and has his new home sweet home get ready soon, happy for him! Sister faced some problems with her family and what I can do is to talk to her more, to get her to share with me more. I can't do much, I can only listen and console. In my family, my aunt Samyi and me are the one with positive thinking, so we try to input our family members the positive thinking rather than thinking negatively. I sincerely hope everyone in my family will have less worry and live life happily.

Pesonal wise~
I keep learning, experiencing the life I have. Still old same way that I always practice, be happy and go lucky with a contented heart. I strongly believe my thinking reflected how I carry my life. I revised my financial planning by re-financing my home loan and I changed my car since last year end, bigger commitment I am having, yet everything is mangaeble, all by my own! Luckily, I did have my travelling plan came real and have visited to some places this year. Furkids are good, behaving and I love them more! I am still single, not sure there will be something different in coming year or not... I shall tell more in coming year! I always feel I am blessed, everything is just nice to me!

Coming year 2012, I want to live a better and happier life! Happy 2012 and I have had it with no regret!

Months of Festive Seasons Coming Soon...

Today is the last day of Nov 2011, time is flying fast
Tomorrow will be the arrival of the last month, Dec of 2011
Following that will be Jan 2012...
The Months of Festive Seasons are coming real soon..

The 2 favourite months of mine....
Dec is the shopping month and festive seasons month for me... hohoho, Xmas and New Year!
Jan is my birthday month, I love this month very much... plus Chinese New Year too!

Good foods, good present, good companions, good times are all in these two months! <3 <3

I am glad

I am glad that I have numbers of good friends
I am glad that I have good siblings
I am glad that I have good mama
I am glad that I have good furkids
I am glad that I am who I am

Without them, I won't feel the happiness
Without them, I won't know that I am that important to them
Without them, I won't know that they are important to me
Without them, I won't know what is love to me

Thank you for being with me, I love you all!

Again, I felt it tonight at a good dinner with my good friend.
We shared a lot and we realised that we were supporting each other
I am glad~

What you want for your living?

I like to stay alone sometimes. It triggers me to think a lot.
Today, I was having my lunch alone.
I saw peoples in the restaurant, I started to think...

I saw a man who works as a helper at the chicken rice stall,
His intention of living is to has his daily earning at the stall
He can be having a happy living, as he didn't ask for much

I saw a man who is the owner of the restaurant
He hired many workers to help him to run the stalls in the restaurant
He is a hardworking man in running his restaurant, as he wants to earn more

This is just happened in the restaurant.. what about other places in the world?
There are different peoples with different needs for living in the world
I am another type of person having my own needs toward a better living
I am contented person, and happy with what I am having now
Yet I will always move on for a better living for myself and my parent
Most importantly, have a live life balance with works and plays
For me, I will live life to fullest, as it's just once in a lifetime!

How you pick?

I would like to know from you, who read my blog, the choice of pick for the below:

Option 1 -
Working almost half of the 24 hours during business peak periods for employer
No personal time much for own personal activities
Monthly pay is on-time, no worry on $ related stuff

Option 2 -
Working as business partner with offer by someone work well with
Working as a business partner, but not as an employee
Monthly pay is given plus other benefits as a business partner
Have to take the risk of business opportunities that might arise

How you pick? Write me your opinion/comment by clicking the little pencil icon down this post. Thank you.

Happy Go Lucky!

How to stay happy and lucky? I always say that I am a happy go lucky person, am I really the one? How you think?

I read an email from my friend, and I found the content of the mail do match with how I think about my life is at currently ~

Here it goes...

1. Throw out non-essential matter and numbers... Do think for yourself how serious is the matter bother you, always set the priority in your heart. As of the age, always keeps young at heart.

2. Share out your thoughts with family and friends, either it be the happiness or bitterness. A happy person loves to share!

3. Keep learning, keep yourself contented with knowledge and experiences! keep your mind busy at one time and rest at the right time!

4. Enjoy the simple life, the simplest the better!

5. Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath. I always do this!

6. The tears happen; Endure, grieve and move on. The only person who is with our entire life, is ourselves. LIVE LIFE to FULLEST while you are alive.

7. Surround yourself with what you love; whether it's the family, pets, friends, memories, music, plants,  movies, hobbies or whatever. Your home is your refuge.

8. Cherish your health. If it's good, preserve it. If it's unstable, improve it. If it's beyond what you can improve, get help.

9. Do things right, be responsible and take accountability on what you do. Should you found yourself in fault, say sorry and don't repeat the same mistake again.

10. Tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity.

I am practicing the above. I think I'm having the answer on the question I posted above. Yes, I am a happy go lucky person... Cheers all!

It's Not Too Late to Review

No, no, no... It's not too late to review...
What I have done at year 2010...? Did I make my wishes of 2010...?
I wrote the post at the year end of 2009... I wished for....

I want to re-finance my house loan.
>> House Loan not matured yet, wait till this year April for re-finance :)

I want to buy a camera, DSLR or Semi Pro?
>> I bought a Micro Four Third Camera, Panasonic GF1, no regret of buying it! :)

I want to go Mt Kota Kinabalu Climb.
>> I climbed the mountain, not only the hills. Proud of myself in achieving this in my life :)

I want to save more money.
>> I still have to save more money.... more more more...

I want to visit my friends at Sydney.
>> I didn't visit my friends at Sydney. This plan was put on-hold till my other buddies are free. :)

I want to buy a new car.
>> I bought a new car at end of the 2010... waiting for my new car to reach now :)

What else I have done?....
I did spent more times with family and friends
I learned more to improve my emotion handling
I changed my job, I am now back to PJ for my work
I made new friends and met some old times friends
I have wrote 138 posts about me, my surrounding in this blog

For 2011...
I will keep learning, continue my happy go lucky life...
I do wish for everyone in my family including myself...A good health with a happy living through out the entire year.

你爱你自己吗？

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“爱情只有两个结局，一是喜剧或是悲剧”。。。 毕打自己人，蘇三说。。。

讲得几贴帹，一齐开心欢喜，咪就是喜剧咯。一吵闹分手，咪叫做悲剧啦，不过悲剧都要死就几大锅啦。

点解呢？ 爱情对人真的那么的重要？ 读报纸，有个二十二岁的青年，因与女友分手，在面子书倒数，跳楼自杀，死了。。。好可惜。他没想到他的家人，朋友吗？家人会有多伤心？朋友会有多难过？

我们生活里，仲有家人~亲情，爸爸妈妈有多爱我们，是他们带我们来这个世界。兄弟姐妹有多关心我们。朋友~友情，朋友之间关怀与支持。我觉得，一个人不爱自己，不会懂得爱身边的人。爱情不是一切。要做什么傻事，想想家人，朋友吧，也想想自己，你有多爱你自己！